Factober

Like the marriage contract you entered into, your divorce is a legal transaction. Treat it that way. Try not to let emotion, hurt, fear or anger dictate the circumstances of your discussions or negotiations.

Posted 3 months, 1 week ago

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The sea can do craziness, it can do smooth, it can lie down like silk breat

The sea can do craziness, it can do smooth, it can lie down like silk breathing or toss havoc shoreward; it can give gifts or withhold all; it can rise, ebb, froth like an incoming frenzy of fountains, or it can sweet-talk entirely. As I can too, and so,
Posted 3 months, 1 week ago

I used to float along in all of this, like a leaf on a coursing stream, but

I used to float along in all of this, like a leaf on a coursing stream, but i am heavier now, less easily moved, more resolute and steadfast. I am no longer in pursuit of happiness. As I stand here at my front door, key in hand, I think it is just possibl
Posted 3 months, 2 weeks ago

The first step to success it's to imagine it

The first step to success it's to imagine it
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I love eating at my dad's pub, the Queens Arms in Kilburn. It does a tradit

I love eating at my dad's pub, the Queens Arms in Kilburn. It does a traditional Albanian spinach pie.
Posted 3 months, 1 week ago

Public acceptance will never replace self-love. Nor will group membership a

Public acceptance will never replace self-love. Nor will group membership add, create, or dictate your value.
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To ‘kill time’ is a case of mistaken identity -- you have mistaken the vict

To ‘kill time’ is a case of mistaken identity -- you have mistaken the victim for the perp.
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Enlarged sympathy with children was one of the chief contributions made by

Enlarged sympathy with children was one of the chief contributions made by the Victorian English to real civilization.
Posted 3 months, 2 weeks ago

The real evidence of growing older is that things level off in importance.

The real evidence of growing older is that things level off in importance.
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Whenever any of these new writers come up who are brilliant, I always reali

Whenever any of these new writers come up who are brilliant, I always realize that you have more talent and more skill than any of them;---but circumstances have prevented you from realizing upon the fact for a long time. [About F. Scott Fitzgerald]
Posted 3 months, 2 weeks ago

Cats are the runes of beauty, invincibility, wonder, pride, freedom, coldne

Cats are the runes of beauty, invincibility, wonder, pride, freedom, coldness, self-sufficiency, and dainty individuality - the qualities of sensitive, enlightened, mentally developed, pagan, cynical, poetic, philosophic, dispassionate, reserved, independ
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It is not easy being you just when you think you made it and its done and o

It is not easy being you just when you think you made it and its done and over with something comes up and your back to square one all over again wishing with all your heart that it was not so that you weren't back in the darkness you escaped. don't worry
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The world should not pass judgement upon the Negro, and especially the Negr

The world should not pass judgement upon the Negro, and especially the Negro youth, too quickly or too harshly. The Negro boy has obstacles, discouragements and temptations to battle with that are little known to those not situated as he is.
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