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At the end of the day, if I can say I had fun, it was a good day.

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I call it the Goldilocks effect: We can't get enough of each other if we ca

I call it the Goldilocks effect: We can't get enough of each other if we can have each other at a digital distance—not too close, not too far, just right. But human relationships are rich, messy, and demanding. When we clean them up with technology, we mo
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...It had all happened in that instant she had seen Carol standing in the m

...It had all happened in that instant she had seen Carol standing in the middle of the floor, watching her. Then the realization that so much had happened after that meeting made her feel incredibly lucky suddenly. It was so easy for a man and woman to f
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If someone comes to you with, 'It's my kid's graduation,' you don't tell th

If someone comes to you with, 'It's my kid's graduation,' you don't tell them, 'Sorry, you can't go to that.' You just don't do that. You figure out some other way.
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The nature of yearning is urgent so as to guarantee evolution, change.

The nature of yearning is urgent so as to guarantee evolution, change.
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Most of us have far more courage than we ever dreamed we possessed.

Most of us have far more courage than we ever dreamed we possessed.
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To Europe she was America. To America she was the gateway to the earth. But

To Europe she was America. To America she was the gateway to the earth. But to tell the story of New York would be to write a social history of the world.
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My results show you what I'm up to

My results show you what I'm up to
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Roosevelt's declaration that Americans had 'nothing to fear but fear itself

Roosevelt's declaration that Americans had 'nothing to fear but fear itself' was a glorious piece of inspirational rhetoric and just as gloriously wrong.
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Whilst you can be a stepping stone to help others succeed, you are not a di

Whilst you can be a stepping stone to help others succeed, you are not a dirty mat to be abused by others.
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When your world gets stripped down to nothing you may feel empty and naked—

When your world gets stripped down to nothing you may feel empty and naked—but this is when your space can be filled with what is new and maybe even upgraded." Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana
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It is better to hope less than to be hopeless.

It is better to hope less than to be hopeless.
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And sure, I know if you eat this way you'll die. So? If you don't eat this

And sure, I know if you eat this way you'll die. So? If you don't eat this way you're still going to die. Why not die happy?
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